I touched a sensitive topic with my previous post (At your own risk...). I've never been asked that question by a woman (or a guy!), but apparently other men have to deal with this situation heaps. The site, I think is silly, rating strangers' butts ... dunno!
If you can't answer the question (does my bum look big in this?) honestly, then by all means, suggest it to your woman. I guess I added that link to make a point - women tend to worry a lot about their body. Sometimes, you have to get them a second/third/fourth... opinion that they are sexy and you're not just saying that cos you're with her, or you love her.
Personally, I would never display my woman's butt, even in a picture, to be rated or critiqued, nor would I suggest she do it. Its just for me to check out and then tell her that she's perfect. If I can't convince her that she's sexy just the way she is, maybe I'm in the wrong relationship?
Its also not fair to say men prefer small, toned behinds - that's like saying women only date men with washboard abs. Its a matter of preference, but not a criteria. So, here's my take on this subject - it doesn't really matter. Maybe men are attracted to women with attractive derriere's - "Attraction isn't a choice" (David DeAngelo's famous quote). So what? Love definitely is a choice.
To the women - if your man loves you, how your butt looks is inconsequential, unless its reaching unhealthy proportions and he has to intervene for the sake of your health!
To the men - the next time she asks you that question, lean in, kiss her and say, "Your butt is perfect, but that dress is too tight... why don't you try this one instead?".
